Back off, boss!
Thursday, May. 24, 2007 at 4:26pm
Q: My boss manages two areas of our department and complains about being too busy/overworked because of this. In December I was reassigned to a position that is the next step up to managing one of these areas.
Before I was reassigned she would show me how to do some of her job and made me her back-up. Ever since I got reassigned to this job, she has not done that, but has actually taken away projects that our director said I should be working on, saying that she "would like to handle it before I do." Our director (her boss) has mentioned to me that he would like to see me take on one of those areas soon, and I know he has said that to her as well.
My question is - How do I work with her to show her that I am a) ready to take on this area and b) get her to back off?
A: Uh-oh. You have a jealous boss. That's bad. If you challenge her directly, she will kill you, especially since her boss seems to like you. Be very, very careful. Do the jobs that your direct boss wants you to do. If the big boss says, "Why aren't you on that project I suggested for you?" you can say, very respectfully, "Betty thought she should take it in hand, at least at this point," since that is the case. Do not complain. Nose that grindstone. And wait. Good things will happen. But not if you try to pop that zit too fast.
Q: I have a problem with one of the ladies I work with. She has some sort of chronic sinus problem and does not use Kleenex. She snorts and sniffles every day all day long. We share a cubicle wall - it's really irritating to have to listen to that on a constant basis. Any ideas on how to resolve this?
A: Tell her to use some Kleenex. Get her a box and put it on her desk. If she still doesn't use it, say "Please use the Kleenex" every time she snorts or sneezes. If she continues to not use Kleenex, begin to say things like, "Why won't you use the Kleenex, Doris?" if her name is indeed Doris. If that doesn't work, try singing out, "Doris is sniffling again!" Eventually, she will use the Kleenex, I think. If she doesn't, you might try picking up a disgusting habit of your own that annoys her and trade solutions.
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